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Welcome to my guestbook! Name: Monica Homepage: Sent: 4.49 PM - 11/16 Great job on your web site... Name: Hometown: Blackwell, Oklahoma Sent: 5.05 PM - 10/31 Hello Everyone I am married to my Thai wife going on 2 years now (together 3 years, I am 44 and she is 33) We met at her job (working in a restaurant). My wife's sister had been married to a man from England for 18 years so my wife could speak a little english (not much). I have read many horror stories and I expect they are for the most part true. I must have found the exception to the rule. My wife puts my well being number one. Yes her family would like to recieve money from us all the time but my wife put a stop to it from day one. She explained to me that she has 4 brothers and 1 sister and 1 mother. My wife has needed help many times over the years and her family basically told her she was on her own and needed to find her own solutions (which she did) needless to say her attitude today is that her family was not there for her when she needed them so why should she do anything to help them now? My wife wants us to save money in the bank so we can look forward to retirement and not worry about bills. My wife is very down to earth. She does not wear makeup or dress in outlandish clothes. She cleans and cooks and worries about me.. To the guys looking to marry a Thai lady I would suggest that you take your time and don't be blinded by beauty or your lust. Look at her is she loud or quite? Does she get angry easy over little things or does she show alot of self control? does she wear to much makeup and wear very sexy clothes or is she more conservative? Maybe I do not really know the score and I was just lucky but I Love my Thai wife and I wouldn't trade her for all the tea in CHINA !!!!! Khab Koon Khap Name: Sent: 11.23 PM - 10/27 It's not only Asian women who think we are made of money, but just about any 3rd world woman who hasn't been properly schooled or hasn't lived outside of the home country on her own can behave the the same way. They get their ideas from watching american movies, american tv shows, from the many boyfriends who shower money on them, etc... It's only natural that if you are the unlucky chump who marries her that she's going to look to you to continue to solve all her and her family's money problems. This class of woman, this is to be expected...and like I said you can find them anywhere, not only in Asia. Having said that, there are however good women from Asia and elsewhere, but it requires a lot of patience and time to sort the good ones from the bad. Most of the "good" women are discouraged from meeting with western men. Usually it's the prostitutes who defy tradition who us western men end up with. Many men who come to Asia and elsewhere, don't have that much time to invest in looking for a good woman, even if they knew what they were doing. Name: Sent: 1.21 AM - 10/15 Student loan company offering student loans, Federal Student Loan consolidation services, scholarship search engine, information about the FAFSA, Stafford Loans and Federal PLUS Loan Applications. Name: D Hometown: Malaysia Sent: 10.45 AM - 9/15 I'm an Asian woman and reading your site makes me feel PITY towards you losers who think Asian women are blood suckers. I guess LOSERS attract LOSERS. There are many smart, educated, high fliers who can pay their own rent. You guys who complained just show yourselves your true colours - racist, lazy and totally not a man! Name: Gaz Sent: 8.08 AM - 8/31 I have been married to a thai lady for about 18mths now. Ist met her on chat line about 18mth before that. She had a good job with American Company been there for 15 years hard working and had worked up to good income by Thai standards. She had worked hard while still working 6 days a week to get a Thai university decree same as her 2 sisiters (both working One married with 2 children and has a great Thai Husband. the other still single. While at ist The thai culture of wedding gifting to the family was abhorant to me I soon learned that this was all that was rqd and my wife spends any money she earns on our Own family ( I have a boy 14 yrs from previous marriage living with me.) My new wife is a great person all my freinds and family think shes wonderfull. She gives time to anyone needing to be heard and always has a smile!. Real Thai ladies are out there and I suggest you need to look at yourself . Your generalisation and some of the others that have supported you probably comes about from the fact that you have all got what you deserve. As any happily married men That have genuiene Thai wifes will know, You get what you pay for and if you start by paying because thats all you can attract then why expect to have her change!. After all its only your money that was ever an attrction to her, and by your attitude she still come off the worse for it!!! Name: Hometown: Thailand Sent: 7.21 AM - 8/29 I have b/f he is US guy. he is very bad guy that I have ever seen. He lies me all the time. Why you usually think the women who came from 3 world want to suck your money?? Please go out of your little shell and she what the men bahave to the women. I met a lier . Feel very bad. Name: Hometown: Nazareth, PA Sent: 10.44 PM - 8/22 I have been w/ a Vietnamese woman here in the US for 8 yrs. She has her good and bad sides, and so do I. The problems that arise between us do not arise primarily because we are from different cultures. They arise because she is a woman and I am a man. God must be laughing his (or her) ass off. He/she gives us these strong sexual drives for persons we take a lifetime trying to understand. I believe all women are crazy, but a female friend told me that is so only because all males are stupid and drive them nuts. I do know this - I wouldn't have it any other way. Sent: 1.41 AM - 8/20 alot of you but not all, are just the average,prejudice american who need more lessons with women. Many of you have only revealed your true ignorance, when it comes to women and other ethnic backgrounds, grab a book, travel, and learn some things, and maybe allot of you wont sound so stupid next time. losers. Name: Sent: 3.14 PM - 8/8 I'm with a Korean woman (first generation to US) and she refuses to give our money away to any family or friends. She treats me like a king and wants to spend her money on pampering us. You just have to be careful who you get involved with. I've had many other asian girlfriends who tried to scam me for money but I got wise and dumped them! Name: Dan Hometown: USA Sent: 9.48 PM - 8/2 I just read my re-read posting and feel somewhat bad about venting like that as I don't want to hurt any Asian women's feelings just because of my bad experience.I would however want to advise any white person concidering a romantic relationship/marriage to an asian person to think it over very carefully.To me,asians tend to be driven inwards towards family,focus,extra-hard work,...Whites tend to be driven outwards towards individuality in a society,discovery,invention...All of the traights that I just mentioned are good or bad depending on your outlook.Just be carefull to choose someone who shares YOUR outlook and not choose because of their looks or curiosity. Name: Dan Hometown: USA Sent: 9.18 PM - 8/2 John sounded corny but I have to agree on a couple of his points.My Asian wife is materialistic and I have noticed this with common frequency with other asian woman.To me asian women are very attractive on the outside however I find little depth beneath the surface.I don't mean to offend as I'm sure not all are like that but that's been my observation.My wife treats my creative nature(and our children's)as a novelty and I resent that.If it's of no emediate practical use it is of little value to her which I find ironic since creative minds are responsable for all the possesions she enjoys.Also,I get awfully tired of hearing how racist white people are as my family welcomed her yet I was not so welcome by her's simply because I was white.I do not think I am an exception in that sense either.Asian's and other non-whites have their racial biases just as much as whites and anybody who says otherwise is full of it.My two cents. Name: Mike Sent: 7.36 PM - 7/2 Humm I married a chinese lady and its I that wants to spend, she keeps me in line :-) and her family doesnt ask... must be the provice your wife comes from. Name: get real -no your right- Hometown: in uk Sent: 4.04 PM - 7/2 i married a thai women she was married to a western mug before me.They learn quickly,i fell for the usual crap(TREATED LIKE A GOD)for 5 minutes,then stripped of any assets eg,money,pensions etc.when your emptied find the next victim scenario.had the last laugh though to old to attracted the next victim,the younger generation learned the tricks. Name: Hometown: San Diego Sent: 3.16 PM - 6/25 Matt, 25 yrs old, job: United States Marine I currently visited Manila in the Philippines last September on vacation. I too thought that all the women there just wanted 2 come back 2 the states. I found out like all of you soon will that you should not beleive everything you hear. These ladies love it in the Philippines. Shit what is there not to love. They have more fun there than I have ever seen here in the US. The people there in PI are 20 times friendlier than the main population in the US. I have also met many college girls, department store clerks, waitresses, and nurses that have never even thought about using men the way you are all talking about. I am talking a girl/friend now that i met out there. She is 21 and is in here 3rd year of college and is also trying to find a job. She travels all around Manila every day filling out job applications, and going to job interviews at book stores, malls, and restaraunts. She tries so hard and is still having troubles. She is very beautiful, talented, and smart. I am sure she would be able to beat any one of you ignorant people in a job interview if she was here. Shit most of you probably have not even enrolled in college. Truth hurts doesn't it. It's just difficult to find jobs there. The place is 15 times more populated than here per capita. I guess all of you who have never been there and have never had first hand experience about life in a 3rd world country just know everything about people who you have never met. Until you actually go there and get to know people, I think you should keep the thoughts other people have put in your puni minds, that you could not come up with on your own because of the lack of common senses, to yourselves. Maybe one day you'll open your eyes and realize how great these people are. Look at all of you on here wasting your time trying to put others down to make yourselves feel like a better person. I do not see them online talking bad about the hoes like yourselves here in the states. And most of you that are talking this trash probably got turned down or denied by a asian girl sometime b4, that it hurt so bad that now you need a reason to make yourself feel better. you need a reason to be seen in your own eyes that you were always better than her anyways. Which you are not, nor ever will be. Don't keep beating yourself about it, it's not going to happen, no matter how many people you tell this senseless nonsense to. Name: Hometown: North Cal usa Sent: 5.40 PM - 6/5 I am married to a filipina 10 years and my life has never been happier. Was was married to white women before and all they wanted was money. When the chips were down they would leave. I found out just a couple of years ago the I am part Filipino my self (1/8). I got married when I was 57 yrs old and my wife is 13 yrs younger. We had our first child 2 years ago. I am realy enjoying this. But you know that there is good and bad people in any race or culture. So maybe I just got hooked-up with bad ones. Roy T. Name: Sent: 2.24 AM - 5/24 I'm old now. 51. I've been to Thailand since l979, and something like 120 other countries. I've heard your story many, many times. The names and faces change, but the story is the same like a broken record. I'm curious, has she cut off your penis yet while you were sleeping? Hell hath no fury like an Asian woman scorned. Name: Hometown: karachi pakistan Sent: 11.52 AM - 4/14 Iam Nasim Bihrose living in karachi pakistan but actually iam from Afghanistan.I have thai Friend her name is Mameaw she is very nice with me and always talk with me freely like a best friend.she is almost graduated from College and she is living in a good family so thats why i Love her alot and she dont love mebey she love's any Australina boy...... but i should say i will love her forever,, she is always in my heart and missing her all the time but she can't understand my feeling and just Ignor my Feeling. Sent: 3.01 PM - 3/30 you racist son of a bitch. asian women are WHAT? fuck you, and you're ignorany white man views. we're not fucking objects of your desire. we're people, just like everyone eles. we're not "exotic" or naturally gonna please your perverted sexual fantasies. you're just one of those ignorant people who think they are shit, and dont know any better. i feel sorry for your wife. Name: kevin Hometown: UK Sent: 12.33 PM - 2/27 You were just unlucky pal. but you should have got to know the girl properly first. as for people calling you a loser i don't agree. I know a few people who have had a thai woman like your wife but were lucky enough to find out what thay were like before they got married. i to am married to a thai woman and at first she was asking me to buy her 3-400 pound rings but after a few weeks she realised that i cant spend money on her 24-7. now she has a good payed job, she pays for holidays and the two carsand i pay for the mortgage. if you are lucky your wife might be able to do the same given a few weeks at home with you. Number of messages: 126 [ ] |